confidentialonlinetherapist:

The 5 Love Languages (Gary Chapman)

If you value communication, affection, positive support, and intimacy in your relationships, this is a great place to start. No matter the type of relationship, whether intimate partner, parent/child, friend, we all give and receive love in primary ways. Understanding how YOU give and receive love, and how the other person gives and receives love can be a vital component to support your relationship. In many ways it can make things far easier, as you aren’t spinning your wheels wasting time, effort, or money giving love in the way they don’t seem to appreciate.

Learn more and take the quiz at:
http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

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darvinasafo:

See, it ain’t just me. David Banner woke.

darvinasafo:

See, it ain’t just me. David Banner woke.

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enchanted-dystopia:

seriouslyamerica:

If you don’t think Jessica Williams is the best part of The Daily Show, you’re wrong.

baeeeeee

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"Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us."

— David Richo (via observando)

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"I must remind you that starving a child is violence. Suppressing a culture is violence. Neglecting school children is violence. Punishing a mother and her family is violence. Discrimination against a working man is violence. Ghetto housing is violence. Ignoring medical need is violence. Contempt for poverty is violence."

— Coretta Scott King (via samirathejerk)

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Chocolate Girls | Naomi Campbell, Alek Wek, Gabrielle Union, Kelly Rowland, Lupita Nyong’o, Kenya Moore, Keke Palmer, Grace Jones & Tika Sumpter.

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"The woman who doesn’t need validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet."

Mohadesa Najumi  (via nyu-tah)

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"It seems that when you want to make a woman into a hero, you hurt her first. When you want to make a man into a hero, you hurt… also a woman first."

Leigh Alexander absolutely hits it out of the park (via bedabug)

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"

"Good Morning"
“How was your day?”
“Be careful”
“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”
“Sweet dreams”
“How are you?”
“I hope you’re feeling better”
“Have a good day today!”
“I miss you”
“Good night”
“Can you come over?”
“Can I come over?”
“Can I see you?”
“Can I call you?”
“You’re beautiful”
“Want something to drink?”
“Watch your step”
“Let’s watch a movie”
“What are you up to?”
“How is your day so far?”
“It will be okay”
“I’m here for you”
“Do you need anything?”
“Are you hungry?”
“I just wanted to hear your voice”
“You just made my day”

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think.

"

blocklava (via perfect)

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"

Ten rape prevention tips:

1. Don’t put drugs in women’s drinks.

2. When you see a woman walking by herself, leave her alone.

3. If you pull over to help a woman whose car has broken down, remember not to rape her.

4. If you are in an elevator and a woman gets in, don’t rape her.

5. When you encounter a woman who is asleep, the safest course of action is to not rape her.

6. Never creep into a woman’s home through an unlocked door or window, or spring out at her from between parked cars, or rape her.

7. Remember, people go to the laundry room to do their laundry. Do not attempt to molest someone who is alone in a laundry room.

8. Use the Buddy System! If it is inconvenient for you to stop yourself from raping women, ask a trusted friend to accompany you at all times.

9. Carry a rape whistle. If you find that you are about to rape someone, blow the whistle until someone comes to stop you.

10. Don’t forget: Honesty is the best policy. When asking a woman out on a date, don’t pretend that you are interested in her as a person; tell her straight up that you expect to be raping her later. If you don’t communicate your intentions, the woman may take it as a sign that you do not plan to rape her.

"

Rape prevention tips

Posted by Leigh Hofheimer under Prevention

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THE REALEST

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youngblackandvegan:

The gram is on point this morning

youngblackandvegan:

The gram is on point this morning

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"Instead of thinking about how to get love, begin to offer it. If you give, you receive. There is no other way."

— Osho (via purplebuddhaproject)

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piggiesftw:

celestial-octopus:

zaleonia1:

OMG!!!! Some one must tell what kind of cat this is. They are sooooooooooooooo cute.

Munchkin cats

jscottrodgers

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amricncleopatra:

hollalujah:

MY DAY IS MADE, BLACK FEMME LOVE MY HEART CANNOT TAKE THIS BRILLIANCE 

i want to be married like this 

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